人，常活在习惯领域里。
一旦，有些什么问题发生，人就往自己熟悉的方向去做思考和努力。 因为这是最容易和最习惯做的事, 所以就会一厢情愿的希望用自己习惯的旧方法去解决新问题。
也既是说, 人们很希望实现梦想, 但问题是不愿改变现状, 却希望有不同的结果, 这可能吗?
的确, 改变让人们感到不习惯, 感到不舒服.
所以, 最最最容易的做法就是持续做同样的事, 结果当然是昨天=今天=明天.
Finding Your Passion Changes Everything
"Finding Your Passion Changes Everything." Sir Ken Robinson.
This quotation by Sir Ken Robinson says it all that regardless who we are, what is our age, whichever background we're from, in order for us to prosper in life what we need is finding our passion, our life will start to change for better. Most importantly, we will feel good and not miserable.
In most cases, it seems normal for us to put more focus on our weakness, seemingly if we don't deal with our weakness, it will hindrance our overall performance, therefore improve on the areas of weaknesses make sense.
BUT the question is why should we need to be an all rounder? i.e. be good in everything!
As according to Sir Ken Robinson, in his book The Element, he stresses that emphasizing on our strenghts and passionately doing what we are good at, we tend to face obstacles with positive thinking and we will handle difficulties with determination and enthusiasm.
There is a management guru, Michael Portel, in his book Competitive Advantage, he mentions that in order to withstand your position in the ever changing business environment, what we need to do is to compete with our strenths and comperative advantages.
Some obvious examples would be in world of sports, all the sportmen are focusing into one or two areas of their game, i.e. Soccer players only compete in football in certain positions, basketball players only compete in basketball with certain roles, motor cyclists only compete in motorcycling.
Of course, everyone can play any sorts of sport, BUT the question is in whether you want to be an amatuer or a master.
BE AWARE: MASTER PLAYER EARN MANY TIMES MORE THAN AN ORDINALLY PLAYER. SPECIALLIST EARN MANY TIMES MORE THAN A ORDINALLY PRACTICIAN.
If you are a Master Player or a Specialist, you're playing with Blue Ocean Strategy; however, if you are an amatuer or a generalist, you're playing in a fierceful competition environment and living in red ocean whereby you need to let go your profit for survival.
This quotation by Sir Ken Robinson says it all that regardless who we are, what is our age, whichever background we're from, in order for us to prosper in life what we need is finding our passion, our life will start to change for better. Most importantly, we will feel good and not miserable.
In most cases, it seems normal for us to put more focus on our weakness, seemingly if we don't deal with our weakness, it will hindrance our overall performance, therefore improve on the areas of weaknesses make sense.
BUT the question is why should we need to be an all rounder? i.e. be good in everything!
As according to Sir Ken Robinson, in his book The Element, he stresses that emphasizing on our strenghts and passionately doing what we are good at, we tend to face obstacles with positive thinking and we will handle difficulties with determination and enthusiasm.
There is a management guru, Michael Portel, in his book Competitive Advantage, he mentions that in order to withstand your position in the ever changing business environment, what we need to do is to compete with our strenths and comperative advantages.
Some obvious examples would be in world of sports, all the sportmen are focusing into one or two areas of their game, i.e. Soccer players only compete in football in certain positions, basketball players only compete in basketball with certain roles, motor cyclists only compete in motorcycling.
Of course, everyone can play any sorts of sport, BUT the question is in whether you want to be an amatuer or a master.
BE AWARE: MASTER PLAYER EARN MANY TIMES MORE THAN AN ORDINALLY PLAYER. SPECIALLIST EARN MANY TIMES MORE THAN A ORDINALLY PRACTICIAN.
If you are a Master Player or a Specialist, you're playing with Blue Ocean Strategy; however, if you are an amatuer or a generalist, you're playing in a fierceful competition environment and living in red ocean whereby you need to let go your profit for survival.
The Study of Professional e-Entrepreneur Development (SPeED) Program
SPeED Programs are to focus on mentoring new eEntrepreneurs the hand-on professional knowledge, skill and techniques to achieve a successful career in Score A eLearning Business. These programs are offered in many areas of expertise include:
A. Entrepreneurial Management
• "WAVE 5" for Entrepreneurship
• Strategic Thinking & Decision Making for Entrepreneurs
• Dynamic Personal Goal Setting for Entrepreneurs
• “Money Making Management” (MMM) for Entrepreneurs
B. Leadership Development
• Developing Personality Leadership
• Developing High Performance Human Resource
• Developing High Performance Team Work
• Developing High Performance Marketing and Servicing
C. Professional Skills & Techniques
• Presentation Skills
• Public Speaking Skills
• Selling Techniques
• Recruitment Assessment Techniques
WHY SPeED Programs?
SPeED Programs focus in mentoring and providing New eEntrepreneurs relevant and neccessary Knowledge and Know-How to succeed in Score A Business.
Duration of the Programs?
It is a life long hand-on programs that conduct weekly to allow eEntrepreneurs to advance in the Score A business with Right Mindset and Applicable Plan of Action to get start.
For further details, please kindly contact: JamesherdWEE@gmail.com or +60168109212.
A. Entrepreneurial Management
• "WAVE 5" for Entrepreneurship
• Strategic Thinking & Decision Making for Entrepreneurs
• Dynamic Personal Goal Setting for Entrepreneurs
• “Money Making Management” (MMM) for Entrepreneurs
B. Leadership Development
• Developing Personality Leadership
• Developing High Performance Human Resource
• Developing High Performance Team Work
• Developing High Performance Marketing and Servicing
C. Professional Skills & Techniques
• Presentation Skills
• Public Speaking Skills
• Selling Techniques
• Recruitment Assessment Techniques
WHY SPeED Programs?
SPeED Programs focus in mentoring and providing New eEntrepreneurs relevant and neccessary Knowledge and Know-How to succeed in Score A Business.
Duration of the Programs?
It is a life long hand-on programs that conduct weekly to allow eEntrepreneurs to advance in the Score A business with Right Mindset and Applicable Plan of Action to get start.
For further details, please kindly contact: JamesherdWEE@gmail.com or +60168109212.
自信生活
今天的社会普遍上都出现信心短缺的现象.
每个人都在寻找生活上的解决方案. 其中, 绝大部分都是来自于处理眼前急迫的问题, 只能走一步算一步. 那到底是什么急迫的问题要人们马上处理呢? 是生活.
大部分的人都被“生活”推着走, 被生活压的喘不过气来; 是生活夺走了他们的自信, 希望和梦想.
为什么没有自信? 因为大部分人都在做不擅长的事, 不喜欢的事, 不开心的事. 由于害怕改变, 也不知道可以改变, 也因为身边的大部分人在表面上都装得若无其事. 所以既然大部分人的生活都是这样过, 那保持现状也是不错的选择.
久而久之, 希望和梦想就被生活给吞灭没了. 这也就是大部分人的生活写照. 为什么呢? 因为大部分的人都不知道自己擅长什么, 自己要什么, 不要什么, 做什么事最开心, 所以只能随生活逐流. 同时, 也因为被教导, 随遇而安, 知足常乐, 最后大家都变成了煮熟了的青蛙.
当一个人知道他要什么, 不要什么, 擅长什么, 而且也知道自己做什么才会开心, 他自然就会有自信心, 就会想办法去追求自己想过的生活, 而面对生活, 去挑战生活, 超越生活.
每个人都在寻找生活上的解决方案. 其中, 绝大部分都是来自于处理眼前急迫的问题, 只能走一步算一步. 那到底是什么急迫的问题要人们马上处理呢? 是生活.
大部分的人都被“生活”推着走, 被生活压的喘不过气来; 是生活夺走了他们的自信, 希望和梦想.
为什么没有自信? 因为大部分人都在做不擅长的事, 不喜欢的事, 不开心的事. 由于害怕改变, 也不知道可以改变, 也因为身边的大部分人在表面上都装得若无其事. 所以既然大部分人的生活都是这样过, 那保持现状也是不错的选择.
久而久之, 希望和梦想就被生活给吞灭没了. 这也就是大部分人的生活写照. 为什么呢? 因为大部分的人都不知道自己擅长什么, 自己要什么, 不要什么, 做什么事最开心, 所以只能随生活逐流. 同时, 也因为被教导, 随遇而安, 知足常乐, 最后大家都变成了煮熟了的青蛙.
当一个人知道他要什么, 不要什么, 擅长什么, 而且也知道自己做什么才会开心, 他自然就会有自信心, 就会想办法去追求自己想过的生活, 而面对生活, 去挑战生活, 超越生活.
开源节流
今天读了一则理财的文章, 文中提到大部分人在成长的过程中, 都被教育不要乱花钱, 要节省; 然而, 却很少人被教育赚钱的重要性.
作者(郭特利, Optama亚洲区总经理)指出赚钱的重要性更大于节省. 他的理由是縱观全球的富豪, 其财富都通过赚钱(开源)所累积, 而少由节省而成为富豪.
那是为什么我们没有被教导赚钱很重要呢?
根据作者的发现, 原因在于"节省操之在我, 而赚钱则有不确定性因素." 在此教育传承下, 我们便不知不觉中对开创新事业和赚钱抱持警惕和保守的态度.
最后, 作者指出赚钱是必要的, 因为它代表我们明天的竞争力; 同时, 节流当然也是重要的, 它在我们创业的过程中扮演把持节俭的行为.
作者(郭特利, Optama亚洲区总经理)指出赚钱的重要性更大于节省. 他的理由是縱观全球的富豪, 其财富都通过赚钱(开源)所累积, 而少由节省而成为富豪.
那是为什么我们没有被教导赚钱很重要呢?
根据作者的发现, 原因在于"节省操之在我, 而赚钱则有不确定性因素." 在此教育传承下, 我们便不知不觉中对开创新事业和赚钱抱持警惕和保守的态度.
最后, 作者指出赚钱是必要的, 因为它代表我们明天的竞争力; 同时, 节流当然也是重要的, 它在我们创业的过程中扮演把持节俭的行为.
Happy Joseph Learn Better.
In general, parents make mistakes in forcing their children to do what they are weak at and stopping their children in doing what they are good at. It seems natural in Asian culture. BUT IT IS WRONG!!!
Let's take my son, JOSEPH, as an example. He is weak in BM, my wife and I will usually force him to go for BM tuition and making sure that he will spend double the time and effort in studying BM.
After one full year of living in miserable life, do you think JOSEPH would do better in BM?
The answer is NO.
WHY?
It is because we are ignoring JOSEPH's emotional feeling and his capabilities.
As according to Haward Gadner, a Harvard School psycologist, he mentioned in his book "The Frame of Mind" that every kids are different Emotionally & Intelligently.
It is indeed common sense that when we do something that we are really good at, we will feel joyful and happy, in turn we become productive. BUT ironically that my wife and I are forcing JOSEPH to do what he is weak at, definitely he will not perform.
Finally, I realize that my wife and I have to alter our mindset to allow JOSEPH to focus on the subjects that he is strong with, i.e. BC, BI and Math and we encourage him to stretch to the limit to get himself listing in the SCORE A's Nationwide Honor List and he did actually get his name listed for several times.
I can see his learning attitude changed dramatically and his passion in doing the SCORE A e-learning program and even fight against his sister for his turn to do SCORE A.
Dear Readers, you might ask: How about his BM?
My answer to you is: "LET IT BE."
I can assure you that when JOSEPH's momentum in learning starts to move, he will automatically uplift his confident in boosting up his standard in BM.
It is Never Too Late To Live Lively
A friend of mine in his late 50s told me he used to be going around looking for opportunities because his jobs did not provide him with enough income to compensate his monthly expenditures, therefore, multiple streams of income seems logical to him.
With the ever increasing financial burder, he tried out a handful of networking and insurance companies, but things just did not work out for him. For a very long period of time, he kept on asking himself what had gone wrong with him but no solutions were answered.
Until, one fine day, he suddently realize that he was going round with no solid root work in all the things he did previously. Instead of caltivating a seed to grow he would abundant an existing hand on rice bowl for some other new opportunities.
Finally, he decided single mindedly to stick his head in the insurance business and go all out fiercelessly in presenting his case to prospects because he has found his 'STRONG WHY' that insurance is his mission in life.
One final comment he made was live lively and live fullest in life, drive you dream car, eat your dream food, live in your dream home, never surrender for second best in life.
Well, my dear friend did not make it during his previous 50 odd years, but his Never Say Die Attitude that kept him going and eventually landed himself wholeheartedly in insurance.
Is it too late to be enlightened after half a century old?
Dear readers, would you like to be enlightened when you reached half a century old? or you would rather start immediately in working on your 'STRONG WHY' that single mindedly allow you to live lively?
NEVER WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN, MAKE THINKGS HAPPEN.
With the ever increasing financial burder, he tried out a handful of networking and insurance companies, but things just did not work out for him. For a very long period of time, he kept on asking himself what had gone wrong with him but no solutions were answered.
Until, one fine day, he suddently realize that he was going round with no solid root work in all the things he did previously. Instead of caltivating a seed to grow he would abundant an existing hand on rice bowl for some other new opportunities.
Finally, he decided single mindedly to stick his head in the insurance business and go all out fiercelessly in presenting his case to prospects because he has found his 'STRONG WHY' that insurance is his mission in life.
One final comment he made was live lively and live fullest in life, drive you dream car, eat your dream food, live in your dream home, never surrender for second best in life.
Well, my dear friend did not make it during his previous 50 odd years, but his Never Say Die Attitude that kept him going and eventually landed himself wholeheartedly in insurance.
Is it too late to be enlightened after half a century old?
Dear readers, would you like to be enlightened when you reached half a century old? or you would rather start immediately in working on your 'STRONG WHY' that single mindedly allow you to live lively?
NEVER WAIT FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN, MAKE THINKGS HAPPEN.
Getting What You Want the NLP Way.
Open your mind’s eyes, in answering the following questions:
1. What does achieve my dream mean to me?
2. What do I see when achieving my dream?
a. Is the image in motion or still?
b. Is the image clear or blur?
c. Is the image closer to you or far away from you?
3. What do I hear when achieving my dream?
a. Do I hear pleasant voices or noisy sound?
b. Do I hear the sound from distance or close to me?
4. What do I feel when achieving my dream?
a. What is the temperature cold or warm?
b. What is the texture of my dream?
c. Do I feel happy or down?
d. Which part of the body do I feel the feeling?
5. What do I smell when achieving my dream?
a. Is my dream fragrance or smelly?
b. Is the smell closer to me or distance away?
6. What do I taste when achieving my dream?
a. Is it sweet or bitter taste?
7. What are the qualities needed to achieve my dream?
8. What is stopping me from achieving my dream?
9. What is the 1st step I need to take in order to achieve my dream?
10. What will happen to my life when achieving my dream?
1. What does achieve my dream mean to me?
2. What do I see when achieving my dream?
a. Is the image in motion or still?
b. Is the image clear or blur?
c. Is the image closer to you or far away from you?
3. What do I hear when achieving my dream?
a. Do I hear pleasant voices or noisy sound?
b. Do I hear the sound from distance or close to me?
4. What do I feel when achieving my dream?
a. What is the temperature cold or warm?
b. What is the texture of my dream?
c. Do I feel happy or down?
d. Which part of the body do I feel the feeling?
5. What do I smell when achieving my dream?
a. Is my dream fragrance or smelly?
b. Is the smell closer to me or distance away?
6. What do I taste when achieving my dream?
a. Is it sweet or bitter taste?
7. What are the qualities needed to achieve my dream?
8. What is stopping me from achieving my dream?
9. What is the 1st step I need to take in order to achieve my dream?
10. What will happen to my life when achieving my dream?
逆境
绣凤在十四年前认识了一位男生， 两个人迅速的发展成为一对恋人，这是她的初恋．就在绣凤以为可以付托终身的时候， 才赫然发现男友竟是有妇之夫，自己成了破坏人家家庭的第三者；在百般熬炼中，她无法接受感情的背叛，更无法承担成为狐狸精的罪名，于是决定勇敢的结束这段感情．正当要向男友提出分手时，她竟然发现自己怀了孕．这突如其来的发现，叫她情绪失控，整个人跌入恐慌，彷徨无助的深渊．
她根本无法想象自己竟是个＂第三者＂，更不愿顶着肚子去抢人家的老公；当时，她家人屡屡劝她拿掉孩子，但她无论如何都不愿割舍肚子里的骨肉．但想到孩子一生下来就没有父亲在身边，想到这里，对孩子她满了亏疚；因此，她又想要给孩子一个完整的家．这么一来，她陷入了两难的窘境：绣凤是该为了孩子，向男友讨个名份吗？抑或是，她应该当机立断的结束这段不伦恋？
情绪近乎崩溃的绣凤，她该给肚子里的孩子和自己怎样的一个未来，她到底该如何克服逆境？
当初，绣凤勇敢的决定生下孩子，独自的抚养，再也不要与男友有任何的瓜葛，也取得家人的谅解．
让我们把时间拉回十四年后的今天．绣凤的女儿已经是亭亭玉立的十四岁少女，正就读于本市的一所中学；而绣凤本人，则是担任某公司的财务主管．她俩母女正过着正常的单亲生活．绣凤凭靠一己的力量勇敢的把女儿带大，她很坦然的说＂女儿是上天给予她最好的礼物＂．
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同样的，在十四年前，1997年的经济风暴中，银行由于银根紧缩，建民的公司除了被银行要求收回约马币近百万的贷款；与此同时，没被收回的贷款其利息也一一的被提高．这一来，建民公司的流动资金出现了巨大的缺口．财务主任急忙向他献议将公司结束，变卖部分产业以清还贷款和应还账项；如此，公司至少还有剩余的净资产．
然而，建民不愿放弃40多年来努力的心血，他坚持不向现实低头，他认为行情坏是暂时的，只要努力一定可以克服难关．因此，为了填补流动资金的缺口，他毅然向身边的亲人和朋友借贷．这么一来，私人的贷款利息加上银行的贷款利息，每月所付的利息竟高达马币四万元．就在这个时候，医生发现他有心脏阻塞的迹象，并敦促他要进行开刀，但他一再的拖延．
生意面临前所未有的危机，又面临心脏病的威胁，建民该如何克服逆境？
１９９７年过后，建民虽然积极的拓展业务，但公司的经营每况愈下，每个月都必须为筹钱应付到期款项而东奔西走．由于还款的懈怠造成主要品牌的撤走．终于在不久后，建民的公司被银行接管，他也宣告破产．奋斗了大半辈子的建民，在年过半百的年龄，却落得破产的命运.
当时，建民唯有面对破产的残酷事实，他一度陷入自责和忧郁中；那段时间，他的家人一直的守候在他身边，一路支持和关怀他．
让我们把时间拉回十四年后的今天，建民不再为钱而疲于奔命，他饮食起居定时，当起了义工，每个星期都参与义工朋友们的活动，包括到医院照顾病患，也学会关怀身边的人事物；幸运的是最近一次的体检，医生告诉他心脏的阻塞情况已经缓和了，也不须开刀，只需定期服药即可．建民幽默的说：＂破产是他一生最惨痛的经历，也是化了装的祝福，要不然他很可能因为心脏病而英年早逝．＂
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锈凤和建民的过去，都有叫人心酸的遗憾，但也就是这些遗憾，丰富了他们生命的厚度，开启了他们人生的另一扇门．他们两人的故事，虽然背景和情境完全不同，但他们面对逆境的过程，可以归纳成以下的３要点，以作为我们的克服逆境的借镜：
１． 勇敢面对人生的难题，再大的困难总都会过去．
不要被眼前的难处打倒，把眼光放远．５年后，１０年后，１５年后再回首，当初的大问题对今天来讲都是微不足道的历史事迹而已．（绣凤：面对感情的背叛，未婚生子，未来茫茫；但十四年后，女儿也长的了，过去的煎熬也不足挂齿了；建民：破产把他４０年来的努力画上了句点．但他却侥幸的检回了一条命，破产对他来说也未必是坏事．）
２． 抱持天无绝人之路的信念，提起勇气活下去．
当事情的结果已经无法挽回，我们需要学会放下．每每当我们以为山穷水尽之时，提起勇气勇敢的寻找活下去的动机，往往就柳暗花明走出了一条康壮大道．（绣凤：在不愿破坏人家婚姻的前提下，她断然当起了未婚妈妈，为的就只有一个目的，就是把孩子养大；建民：竭尽全力后，终究无法挽救生意．最后，他只有接受破产的事实，勇敢的开启破产之后的新生活．他为的就是希望不要让关心他的人为他伤心难过，所以他不可以让自己继续消沉下去，．）
３． 相信逆境是＂人生最好的礼物，也是化装的祝福＂．
在人生的遭遇中，我们得到一些同时也失去一些，失去一些同时也得到一些．(绣凤：遭受感情的背叛，成了单亲妈妈，却的到了人生最好的礼物～女儿；建民：在破产后，生活作息正常了，少了为钱烦恼的压力，竟侥幸的检回自己的健康．)
朋友们，人生的旅途，不会只是充满鲜花与掌声，它也同时是遍地荆棘坎坷之路． 约翰肯尼迪说：＂看不清前方的路，不可以作为不肯出发，不愿展开下一段旅程的借口．＂因此，在面对逆境时，我们只有提起勇气正面迎接它，哪怕在大的困难，它终将会过去；我们也要抱持天无绝人之路的信念，提起勇气活下去；因为，逆境很可能就是你＂人生最好的礼物，也是化了装的祝福＂．
她根本无法想象自己竟是个＂第三者＂，更不愿顶着肚子去抢人家的老公；当时，她家人屡屡劝她拿掉孩子，但她无论如何都不愿割舍肚子里的骨肉．但想到孩子一生下来就没有父亲在身边，想到这里，对孩子她满了亏疚；因此，她又想要给孩子一个完整的家．这么一来，她陷入了两难的窘境：绣凤是该为了孩子，向男友讨个名份吗？抑或是，她应该当机立断的结束这段不伦恋？
情绪近乎崩溃的绣凤，她该给肚子里的孩子和自己怎样的一个未来，她到底该如何克服逆境？
当初，绣凤勇敢的决定生下孩子，独自的抚养，再也不要与男友有任何的瓜葛，也取得家人的谅解．
让我们把时间拉回十四年后的今天．绣凤的女儿已经是亭亭玉立的十四岁少女，正就读于本市的一所中学；而绣凤本人，则是担任某公司的财务主管．她俩母女正过着正常的单亲生活．绣凤凭靠一己的力量勇敢的把女儿带大，她很坦然的说＂女儿是上天给予她最好的礼物＂．
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同样的，在十四年前，1997年的经济风暴中，银行由于银根紧缩，建民的公司除了被银行要求收回约马币近百万的贷款；与此同时，没被收回的贷款其利息也一一的被提高．这一来，建民公司的流动资金出现了巨大的缺口．财务主任急忙向他献议将公司结束，变卖部分产业以清还贷款和应还账项；如此，公司至少还有剩余的净资产．
然而，建民不愿放弃40多年来努力的心血，他坚持不向现实低头，他认为行情坏是暂时的，只要努力一定可以克服难关．因此，为了填补流动资金的缺口，他毅然向身边的亲人和朋友借贷．这么一来，私人的贷款利息加上银行的贷款利息，每月所付的利息竟高达马币四万元．就在这个时候，医生发现他有心脏阻塞的迹象，并敦促他要进行开刀，但他一再的拖延．
生意面临前所未有的危机，又面临心脏病的威胁，建民该如何克服逆境？
１９９７年过后，建民虽然积极的拓展业务，但公司的经营每况愈下，每个月都必须为筹钱应付到期款项而东奔西走．由于还款的懈怠造成主要品牌的撤走．终于在不久后，建民的公司被银行接管，他也宣告破产．奋斗了大半辈子的建民，在年过半百的年龄，却落得破产的命运.
当时，建民唯有面对破产的残酷事实，他一度陷入自责和忧郁中；那段时间，他的家人一直的守候在他身边，一路支持和关怀他．
让我们把时间拉回十四年后的今天，建民不再为钱而疲于奔命，他饮食起居定时，当起了义工，每个星期都参与义工朋友们的活动，包括到医院照顾病患，也学会关怀身边的人事物；幸运的是最近一次的体检，医生告诉他心脏的阻塞情况已经缓和了，也不须开刀，只需定期服药即可．建民幽默的说：＂破产是他一生最惨痛的经历，也是化了装的祝福，要不然他很可能因为心脏病而英年早逝．＂
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锈凤和建民的过去，都有叫人心酸的遗憾，但也就是这些遗憾，丰富了他们生命的厚度，开启了他们人生的另一扇门．他们两人的故事，虽然背景和情境完全不同，但他们面对逆境的过程，可以归纳成以下的３要点，以作为我们的克服逆境的借镜：
１． 勇敢面对人生的难题，再大的困难总都会过去．
不要被眼前的难处打倒，把眼光放远．５年后，１０年后，１５年后再回首，当初的大问题对今天来讲都是微不足道的历史事迹而已．（绣凤：面对感情的背叛，未婚生子，未来茫茫；但十四年后，女儿也长的了，过去的煎熬也不足挂齿了；建民：破产把他４０年来的努力画上了句点．但他却侥幸的检回了一条命，破产对他来说也未必是坏事．）
２． 抱持天无绝人之路的信念，提起勇气活下去．
当事情的结果已经无法挽回，我们需要学会放下．每每当我们以为山穷水尽之时，提起勇气勇敢的寻找活下去的动机，往往就柳暗花明走出了一条康壮大道．（绣凤：在不愿破坏人家婚姻的前提下，她断然当起了未婚妈妈，为的就只有一个目的，就是把孩子养大；建民：竭尽全力后，终究无法挽救生意．最后，他只有接受破产的事实，勇敢的开启破产之后的新生活．他为的就是希望不要让关心他的人为他伤心难过，所以他不可以让自己继续消沉下去，．）
３． 相信逆境是＂人生最好的礼物，也是化装的祝福＂．
在人生的遭遇中，我们得到一些同时也失去一些，失去一些同时也得到一些．(绣凤：遭受感情的背叛，成了单亲妈妈，却的到了人生最好的礼物～女儿；建民：在破产后，生活作息正常了，少了为钱烦恼的压力，竟侥幸的检回自己的健康．)
朋友们，人生的旅途，不会只是充满鲜花与掌声，它也同时是遍地荆棘坎坷之路． 约翰肯尼迪说：＂看不清前方的路，不可以作为不肯出发，不愿展开下一段旅程的借口．＂因此，在面对逆境时，我们只有提起勇气正面迎接它，哪怕在大的困难，它终将会过去；我们也要抱持天无绝人之路的信念，提起勇气活下去；因为，逆境很可能就是你＂人生最好的礼物，也是化了装的祝福＂．
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