成功是种感受

(本文摘自Daniel G. Amen的«Magnificent Mind At Any Age»一书。) 如果你感受不到成功, 那"成功"什么都不是。多数人认为成功是种象征, 例如社会地位, 财富, 成就, 名声等等。然而, 到了生命的最后关头, 感受才是人生的终极衡量条件。 我们都认识一些名人, 他们拥有所有足以代表成功象征的辉煌成就,财富,样貌,受人爱戴等; 但他们却自认失败, 成功的象征没有防止猫王, 玛丽蓮梦露, 麦克杰克生感到失败, 他们得靠毒品, 酒精或自我毁灭才能去除那种痛苦的感受。 Denial Amen称之为"成功空虚症候群"~外在看来成功但内在缺乏正面感受。 因此, 如果所有证据都显示你的人生很成功, 但你确没有感觉到成功或觉得自己在假冒别人过活, 那就是该停下脚步自省的时候了。

2种老师

老师有2种: a. 教书的老师; b. 教学的老师。 前者, 很尽责的把书都教完, 但孩子嚥不嚥得下, 是你家的事, 结果上课成了孩子的梦魇; 衡量学习进度的准绳, 只有学业成绩。 后者, 着重在与孩子情感交流, 允许孩子用擅长的感官系统来学, 教导孩子有效学习的方法, 结果每个孩子都很期待上课; 评估孩子的学习态度, 才是合适的准绳。 老师啊!想想你是前者,还是后者? 记得,现实人生许多的成就, 不是靠"写"出来的, 而是"做"出来的。

3 Must Have Minsets about Answering Life Questions.

3 Must Have Mindsets about Answering to Life Questions: 1. Knowing there will be Answers to Every Question in Life; otherwise, it will be considered as the Truth. 2. Allowing yourself Rooms to Fail; you might not get the Right Answer at 1st, but you do gain some Lessons while looking for the Right Answer. 3. Keep Going and Trying and Believing that you will eventually get to the Right Answer. Remember that do not congest yourself with all the Questions, only tackle one at a time.

中国教育部公布教师专业标准:幼教不得挖苦孩子

(华商网16/09/2012) 中国教育部经过半年多的意见征集和修改，14日教育部网站正式公布了幼儿园、小学及中学教师三大教师专业教育标准，其中均明确提到教师要保护学生生命安全。其中，幼儿园教师标准中提到，幼儿园教师要尊重幼儿人格，维护幼儿合法权益，平等对待每一位幼儿，不讽刺、挖苦、歧视幼儿，不体罚或变相体罚幼儿。教师专业技术标准（试行）文本标准专家组负责人之一、国家教育改革咨询委员会委员顾明远说，不少老师不大懂得尊重孩子，用言语挖苦孩子，甚至体罚孩子，这是不尊重孩子人格的体现，对孩子的成长很不利。小学教师专业标准则要求掌握对小学生进行青春期和性健康教育的知识和方法。

昂山素季

昂山素季希望通过非暴力抗争达到民主目标，这条道路注定不平坦。 昂山素季在个人自由和家庭幸福上付出的代价。她说 "第一次被软禁时，非常思念远在英格兰的丈夫和孩子，最终，你意识到这样做没有用，所以你停止了思念 。" 她感悟 "如果不能挣脱恐惧的锁链去自由地追求真理，那么愚昧也将难以被驱除 "。

Resilience is All You Need in Adversity.

It's the hard truth: from time to time we’re going to fail. No matter how much we try to outrun or sidestep failure, failure is going to happen. It’s inevitable: no one has limitless wisdom, energy, strength, patience, or resourcefulness. In fact, for most of us, it’s not unusual to have more failure than successes. The trick is to “take the hit,” get back up, and keep going. British Prime Minister Winston Churchill (leader during WWII) said, “Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” This is easier said than done. How do you maintain enthusiasm when you are exhausted, discouraged, frustrated, or completely alone? How can you do this? Abraham Lincoln’s life was a disaster: he lost his first love to typhoid, was defeated in eight elections, couldn’t get in to law school, and went bankrupt, but in the end he succeeded in winning the presidential election of 1860 and became one of the US greatest presidents. Resilient people are goal-oriented, which gives them a reason to get back up and keep going in the face of adversity. They don’t give up easily, if ever. Resilient people know their own strengths and they know that they can depend on themselves to do what it takes to get the job done, even if this means going it alone. They also keep a sense of proportion, knowing what is reasonable and what is impossible. The key to success is to decide where you are going, and then keep your eye on your objective. Don’t lose sight of it, and don’t quit. When you stumble, get back up. Don’t let anything discourage you. Keep going until you get there. With every success, your confidence and commitment will grow. This works every time, no matter what your vocation might be. So be clear on where you are headed, take reasonable risks, and don’t give up on your goals. If you don’t let mistakes paralyze you, you will continue to move forward. This always results in success.

还给孩子学习的空间

教育不是为了追求眼前的功利和分数导向。它更着重的是提升人类对多元生命涵养的认识, 参与和体验。 老师们和父母亲们, 让我们从多元智能的角度来认识孩子的多元发展出路和发展潜能。 别再为了应付考试的教育思维, 持续的扼杀孩子对多元学习的热情。 加油! TAT快乐家长们!

确定方向，一步一步走

很多道理我们懂， 却没有去执行； 有些事情我们知道该执行，却没有勇气踏出第一步； 当真的踏出了那一步之后，却没有耐性一步一步的走到最后。 其实，人们不是知道的不够，而是走下去的坚持不够。 是什么原因叫人们不去坚持到底，而选择半途而废呢? 我想是为了错误的原因开始。没有搞清楚自己追求的人生目标是关健点。当人们没有清晰明确的追求方向，任何的方向都被以为是值得追求的。因此，轻易被环境煽动的情绪，容易一时兴起的冲动，就让人们轻易投入不该开始的陷阱。 周弘说: "只要方向正确，就不怕路途遥远。" 确定奋斗的方向后，一步一步走,目标就越接近我们一步。 所以,朋友们，你确定了奋斗的人生方向了吗?

«预见成功»5步骤

根据Paul J. Meyer对成功的定义是逐步实现预先设定好有价值的目标。 这里让我们一同来«预见成功»5步骤: 1. 清晰渴望的目标; 2. 势在必得的勇气; 3. 灵活有效的策略; 4. 立即行动的动力; 5. 坚持到底的决心。 加油!

From Education Expenses into Education Income.

Dear Readers,

The Industrial Age has gone, and what used to happen during the Industrial age was that for any person to get rich they had to accumulate their wealth over a decade or more. BUT now come the Information Age, youngsters are getting rich by merely few months or few years. 

21st Century is the era of Knowledge base Economy. All information are transmitted through internet boundlessly. Therefore, in Information Age many younger generation are creating huge fortune at young age, i.e. Bill Gate, Steve Job, the founder of Facebook ~ Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Amazon.com ~ Jeff Bezos, the founder of Yahoo.com ~ Jerry Yang and many more...

Today, in Malaysia, we have the privileged to attach to a company which was founded in year 1999 ~ Kenshido International. The company is primarily focus in developing an eLearning Program ~ Score A, which specifically target the Malaysian Students from Pre-School 1 and 2, Primary 1 to 6, Form 1 to Form 5.

The Score A eLearning Program is collaborated with University Sains Malaysia, Dewan Bahasa dan Pustaka, Ministry of Higher Education and Ministry of Science Technology Innovation. Its syllabus are 100% accordance to the Ministry of Education and endorsed by Minister of Education and Prime Minister. All the materials in the Score A program are prepared the students to be exam ready for both school level and national level examinations. 

In today's term, Education Expenditure is to be considered as one of the biggest expenses for many family. Have you ever thought of how much you would get back from your Education investment in your child? 

I thus take this opportunity to introduce you the Score A ~ eLearning Program, the Pioneer in eLearning program in Malaysia. Its effective and very economical. It allows us to turn Education Expenditure into Education Income where accumulate a sum of Return on Investment (ROI) into our children Education Fund.

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